Thursday, February 26, 2015

Mermaid Theme gifts

Our latest theme launch has been the cute mermaid theme for the fantasy filled little girls.

So now when you are looking to get ideas for little mermaid birthday party , you can find your solutions with littlecharms.net

You can add so many fun elements to this wonderful party theme. Like for the food you can do some layered jelly in cups  or star shaped peanut butter sandwiches.

 Add some shells and corals to the decor and don't forget a big mermaid cutout for the backdrop.

Straws can be topped with some hand made paper print cutouts of shells , octopus , starfish.

And last but not the least get the party favors done from us in the matching theme.

It has come out to be such a colorful one that we have been mesmerized by it for quite long.

The yellow , pink and turquoise colors of mermaid have been juxtaposed with bright polka dots print.

We have couple of items like clip organizer , art tote , drawstring bag and backpack here.

But we of course do any of our products in this lovely theme if required by you.

Just log on to littlecharms.net

Drawstring bag
Art tote

Gift set

Clip organizer 

Backpack

Clip organizer big





Get ready for a 'beachy' party fun !

Friday, February 20, 2015

Choosing Ideal Personalized Bags for Kids


Travelling can be fun only when kids are able to carry their own things. Carrying books or things while travelling can be a difficult task for kids. But this burden can be eased off by opting for  personalized bags for kids which would make the process of carrying comfortable and loaded with fun. This also lends a sense of responsibility and belongingness in children.

There are many kinds of bags available in the market- backpacks, drawstring bags, drawstring backpacks, trolley bags, cotton tote bags, etc. But, how would you choose a good personalized bag for your loved one? Here are a few ideas on how to choose a personalized bag for kids.
Drawstring Backpacks

Drawstring backpacks comes in unique color combinations and patterns. You may choose from any of them available or even customize them according to your needs. They are very useful for taking books to school and at the same time can be carried for an outdoor activity. These bags come in various colors like pink and lavender for girls and blue and yellow for boys.

Trolley Bags

Trolley bags can be called the best utility bags for kids. These bags have an attached trolley which is adjustable. Kids can pull them as a trolley as well as hang them behind their back. They can be taken to school or can be carried during a trip or travel. This bag makes a trip easier, as kids can carry their own luggage in this bag.

Cotton Tote Bags

Cotton tote bags are useful to carry a lot of things while on a travel especially for kids. Many a companies have now come up with innovative ideas with these tote bags and have started personalizing them according to the need of a child. They come in various vibrant colors and design. They are very eco-friendly.
Personalized drawstring bags are one of the best options to choose for when planning to gift something memorable and meaningful to kids.

Birthday Return Gifts: Some Ideas that Work


Planning a birthday party? Easy, isn’t it? Yes, it is, but only when you have given a considerable thought and planned it properly right up to the point where it reaches to the return gifts! The moment you start planning for your child’s birthday, he/she will insist on knowing what you have in mind for return gifts. Birthday return gifts carry a lot of emotional value to the birthday boy/girl as well as for the guests.

Many people prefer giving ‘made to order’ things as return gifts to their guests. This gives the gifts a sense of thoughtfulness and attaches loads of personal touch. Anybody can think of giving a pencil box, however customizing it with your child’s name and birth date printed on it can make it more appealing for your child and all the little guests. You can write ‘Thank you for gracing the occasion” along with your child’s or your name on it.

Apart from giving a personal touch to the return gifts, the customized gifts can leave fond memories for the guests as well of the occasion they attended. For the child’s birthday party, you can get pencil boxes, mega pencils, pouches etc ‘made to order’ and for your spouses’ birthday party, pouches for the mobile, file covers, insulated coffee mugs, small money purses and personalized diaries etc. can be customized.

You can save a lot of energy by ordering your customized return gifts online as many online companies offer to personalized things for reasonable rates and promise a timely delivery of your order at your door steps. This way you can keep all the hassle of going to the gift shop and carrying all your purchased items all the way home.

 

 

 

Thursday, February 19, 2015

Importance of Reading Aloud


Reading aloud to kids has long been acclaimed has the proven method for language and cognitive skills development.

Needless to say that infants and toddlers learn their mother tongue by what they hear and speak out loudly while reading their ‘ My First words ‘

It enhances speech and stimulates learning.

But reading aloud is as essential for kids of age group 5-10 years of age and beyond as well.

image courtesy : mysightwords

Get here Top 6 reasons on the importance of reading aloud :

1. Enjoyment :

When children read out stories or plays , they are transported into new worlds—ones that they create in their own minds, ones born of words, and ones charged with emotive energy.  Because children will not become good at something they don't enjoy doing, we must offer them literature-based experiences that are positive, engaging, and enjoyable. 
They experience a feeling of inclusion in the story and therefore improve imaginative skills alongside. They are able to practice role plays , get into the characters and feel like being the hero or the magical queen.
 Who knows, we are seeing the next big theatre artist !




2. Development of qualities of an orator :

Politicians might be criticized at all the points, but one place that you will agree is that they are amazing orators. They capture the eyes , minds and attention of thousands whom they lead by the power of their words. 
Without being politically biased, I must mention our prime minister Mr.Narendra Modi who is an exceptional orator same as his mentor Mr. Atal Bihari Bajpayee. Legacies have changed , such is the power of their speeches which can be true for young kids too if they learn to read aloud and practice for their morning school prayers or speeches.

3. Prepared of debate competitions :

When children read with expressive skills, they will also develop more confidence in themselves as readers. No longer limited either to rapid word-calling or to stumbling over print, children will discover that, with practice and guidance, they can become more fluent, purposeful, and effective readers without fearing words or audience. With repeated success, their confidence levels will rise.
When they listen to themselves they understand if they are sounding right and if it all makes sense what they are speaking. So they are able to monitor themselves.

4. Become a narrator :

Children , while reading aloud , tend to put their emotions into it. Rather you can help them with this by reading along with them .This will help them gain control over their diction and hence seek an opportunity to become a narrator at the school function and later in college feat. 
 When children prepare to read expressively, they will develop competence in grammar, memory, attention, sequencing, and understanding cause. 
Reading with command takes time, focus, and attention; and if children are going to read aloud well, they can prepare a text for oral reading. they will gain a greater understanding of how grammatical and rhetorical structures (sentences, stanzas, and paragraphs) work and how the sequencing of words and ideas plays an important role in the delivery of meaning.

image courtesy : storiesandchildren

5. Enhance fluency and comprehension :

 Fluency is an essential part of successful reading. Fluency is based on automaticity (a reader's ability to recognize words automatically).
 If children are to become both automatic and fluent readers, they need practice. Preparing to read a text aloud expressively provides children with the time and means to recognize words automatically and to read a text with a high percentage of accuracy
When children use techniques for expressive oral reading, their comprehension of what they are reading dramatically increases. 
Since fluency is closely tied to comprehension, when children become smoother and more accurate readers they will also become more knowledgeable ones. By practicing a text, children will become more familiar with its words, sentence patterns, and organizational structure. 
Once children become familiar and comfortable with a text, they are then in a position to make discoveries about the different kinds of meanings (both denotative and connotative) that may emerge from their interaction with the text .

6.Develop stronger vocabularies and language structures :

 If children are to become successful, independent readers, they will need to have a large, active, mental storehouse of words and language structures (sentences, paragraphs, poems, stories, etc.). When they are regularly exposed to words and language patterns that are outside their normal way of speaking, children develop a stronger awareness of language and its aesthetic and communicative possibilities. 
Entwined with this stronger awareness is a natural desire to put to use these new words and patterns. This new linguistic awareness will make itself known in the way children speak and write—and in their ability to read and understand increasingly sophisticated texts. They will become aware of a variety of writing generes and get familiar with them. 
Reading aloud also counter affects the passivity that excessive TV viewing has. Rather that accentuating speed and quick cuts, as does TV, literature read aloud promotes a slow unfolding of events, images, and ideas—items that must take fully embodied shape in the minds of the listeners.


                                                       




So you see , reading aloud is as important for older kids too. Well it might sound a bit odd but you should even consider reading out to them still.

Picture this : You simply try to command your child, "I don't want you to hang out with so and so,"
But that's a lecture that will probably go in one ear and out the other.

 But if you read a book about a kid who gets in trouble by hanging out with the wrong crowd, your child is going to experience that directly, and she's going to experience it with you at her side, and you can talk about it together. A discussion may flow out.

You can ask questions like: "Do you think the boy made the right choice?" "Do you think that girl was really her friend?" When you talk about a book together, it's not a lecture, it's more like a coach looking at a film with his players, going over the plays to find out what went right and what went wrong.


Happy Reading then!

Thursday, February 12, 2015

How to increase concentration during exams

You have planned meticulously a time table for your kid to prepare for his exams. He sits down to study being fully aware that this is his study time. Yet when you come in a few minutes later to check on him , he is making doodles , or fidgeting with his pen or just gazing into the blank.

Yes this is simple lack of concentration.

Concentration involves the abilities to focus, screen out distractions, delay gratification, and regulate impulses and emotional responses. Poor concentration is a common complaint by parents and teachers alike, and our all- time enemy. And the worst is, it evades us when we need it the most – studying at night for an important exam the following day, for instance. 

To help our kids increase concentration here are some practices which you can undertake

1.    Inculcate the habit of writing down :

Though most of the students shy away from this practice but it is definitely much more focused method of studying than reciting or just mentally repeating the text. You should encourage the child to understand the chapter and then make notes himself. This way he will have  a better understanding of the content and since he will be more engaged analytically , he will pay full attention to his course.




                                                  

2.    Perform Mental Gymnastics:

Developing concentration is not a one day activity. You should be at it with your kid on a regular basis and you can make this a fun activity by playing games . Choose game that stimulate the mind, particularly those that make use of strategy, will build verbal skills, plus improve powers of concentration, perception and reasoning. Here are some recommendations for brain-building games you can do as a family:



  Chess
·         Checkers
·         Crossword puzzles
·         Cryptograms
·         Word jumbles
·         Scrabble
·         Mathematical puzzles

3.    Give them the power of affirmations:

Like it happens with us adults , the thing we fear the most is bound to come along our way some or the other time , so it happens with the kids. If they dread a subject , they will find it haunting them , making them loose confidence and the will to study it. Make them believe that they can perform well in every subject . Make them say ‘ I love chemistry’ ( if that’s what they hate ! ) and you will see ,, gradually this affirmation helps them get comfortable with the particular subject.

4.    Practice Meditation :

Yes of course , you can teach this to  a kid as young as 2 years and elder ones are in dire need of it. Make it a routine that you practice meditation ( it can become a very good family event) together. Meditation will help them keep calm and get rid of anxiety which in turn will enable them to focus on their studies.

5.    Active Body , Active Mind:

No one can negate the importance of physical exercises. When kids are allowed to play and outdoor game or take a walk or exercise during exams it helps open up their lungs making them feel lighter , more energetic and willing to complete the task taken in hand which presently are the exam preparation. Exercising increases blood flow to the brain and also stimulate hormonal responses that increase mental sharpness. Relaxing sleep of minimum 10 hours thereafter will  balance out his physical requirements.

6.    Keep away from sugar:

If your ward is having problems with concentration, the first place to look in is your kitchen! Check his diet – breakfast, snacks, Tiffin and dinner, for sugar content. Most of the times, kids consume a lot of sugar through their favorite snacks, breakfast and other food items, which results in them getting a sugar rush! Sugar rush is nothing but the presence of the excessive sugar in their bloodstream that makes them hyperactive which makes it difficult for them to concentrate on one singular thing at a time. Furthermore this sugar rush tends to fade away in a span of 3-4 hours and this leads to them becoming lethargic and irritated, further hampering their chances of having a good concentration



7.    Balanced diet :

Macro biotic expert Tarika Ahuja , founder Sacred Swan who has authored the book Beautiful Children : a parent's guide to raise healthy children , suggests that including whole grains like brown rice and ragi are very useful in increasing the concentration of foods. Since these are whole grains , they take longer time to break down hence making the kid feel fuller for longer period of time which in turn decreases snack breaks and  improves focus.
                                          
A great nutrient balance is the only thing that helps the brain function optimally.
So you should plan out a menu that is an ideal mix of carbohydrates, proteins and essential nutrients that will provide your child with enough energy and also help with optimal mental activity. 
Some healthy food options that you can offer to your child include: 
  • Whole wheat peanut butter sandwich with a banana and a handful of nuts.
  • Cereals dashed in with chopped nuts and raisins
  • Dosa/ omlette / poha
  • Buttermilk or fruit yougurt.
  • Mix green leafy vegetable in roti dough.
  • Roasted fox nut (makhana)


One thing that is highly recommended  to all parents is to ensure your child has a few leaves of tulsi every day. It is a great tool to manage stress and also boost the immune system. Your kid falling sick is that last thing you would want this time.

So finally , just give all your support to your kid and they sail with flying colors this exam season.
All the best !

PS : for your lovely little kids find an easy to make  ragi biscuit recipie here.








Thursday, February 5, 2015

Exams : For child or for parent

It’s time to shelve the constant messaging on whatsapp or checking of latest updates on Facebook.

Why you ask?

It’s exam time!

Wait a minute, but your kid is having his grade finals right, not you.

But realistically, parents are equally stressed out during this time. Yes dear parents, that time of the year is here which is dreaded equally by students and parents alike.

Parents experience a similar level of stress, anxiety and mental pressure during exam time. Parents often feel like it is them who are giving the examination instead of the child. Lives begin to revolve around a flurry of tuition and tuition teachers, strict time-tables and academics. Unfortunately, we as parents start giving so much attention to each and every minute spent by the kid during this time that it ultimately builds up a huge dilemma and tension for the child.

Children will by default start feeling anxious and become overtly vulnerable towards the outcomes of the exams. With so much perceived to be at stake, it is not surprising that children find themselves experiencing very high stress and anxiety levels. Exam-related depression, black-outs and suicides have become alarmingly common.

 Parents tend to relate their past experiences to their kids present situation. They strive to set all those things right which were expected from them in the past without realizing that they are making the present and future of this kid highly susceptible.

Examinations are conducted to evaluate your kid , not you or your teachings. It is imperative that parents strive to help their kid during exam time rather than making the environment all the more stressful.

Some of the following tips and pointers should help you get through this challenging time.

Be Calm yourself

Whether your kid is star performer or an average student, whatever his or her academic performance is, they are already concerned about the approaching exams. In this scenario your effort should be towards mitigating their anxiety and not add to it. This will surely improve their performance from the present level. It is essential that you do not pass your anxiety on to your child as this can hamper his performance and ability to concentrate.
Reduce stress levels


Optimum stress

 An adequate level of stress will enable your child to take his examinations seriously and work towards it accordingly. Preparing the kid mentally, as the exam draw closer, will help them gear up for it with better focus and diligence It might be that during this time children complain of an inability to concentrate, may become irritable or seem depressed and can lose appetite and have sleep disturbances. If you feel your child is unable to cope, it is a good idea to get him/her to speak to a counsellor.

Give space to your child

Rising early to do the notes suited best for you. But it might not be the same with your kid. He likes night study .
As they grow , they tend to develop their owns methods and strategies to study and handle examinations. What worked for you may not work for your child. Instead of being adamant about a particular way of studying, let them devise their own means. Provide suggestions and support, as it is your duty as a parent, but then let the child follow what he or she finds most comfortable for themselves. It is important to give him/her space to figure out what works for best or him by not interfering in his/her study habits.

It’s not the end of the world

Please remember, one examination and that too in primary or middle school does not define the course of your child’s career. But it can surely define or destroy the more subtle parts of life like your relationship, their perception towards failure and ability to handle challenges. Be realistic about your child’s capabilities and not be blurred by your expectations. All your kid needs at this point is your unconditional support ….no fear , no rewards , no bargains.

A healthy mind in a healthy body

As a parent , nutritious food at regular intervals is the best support you can give. A healthy diet consisting of fruits and vegetables, keeping away from fried snacks and caffeine in the form of coffee and colas help in keeping the mind and the body alert. Proper sleep of at least eight hours will help them to concentrate better.

Provide a quiet & clean ambience to study

Yes you have to cut down on your tv time too because it is quite probable that he will be having his preparatory leaves. So when he is home, disturbances like television, mobile gaming etc. can distract him . Avoiding these things yourselves would be beneficial. The parents should play an important role in providing quiet and clean ambience to study.

Keep up the motivation

Appreciation is the greatest motivation. Acknowledge your child for all the efforts he or she is making. Help them in building a respectable self esteem and keep up to it. To mention here again, it should be within the limits of their capabilities. A little extra doze of hugs and love will create a happy atmosphere for the kid. Your support in maintaining  cool and calm environs might motivate him to put in longer hours of study.


Examinations are not a ppunishment


Examinations are not punishment

Banning tv or playing with friends will do more harm than good. In a bid to increase study time , parents take such drastic measures.  They are kids and recreation is vital for their health. It is important for the child to have some forms of recreation and to take breaks from studying. Examinations are nothing but a life-skill to help teach time-management, stress-management, performance under pressure, planning etc. which is so important for later life. Exams should not be turned into a punishment  neither for the kid nor for the parent.

It is natural for a parent to want his/her child to have a great result and high performance. It is also natural for a parent to be anxious about his child's performance in examinations to get into that elusive college/university. But let’s make it equally natural to understand that our kids will receive what they are destined for. We can only be the facilitator, guide and guardian. Let’s not try becoming the monarch.

Let’s help our children look at examinations as a learning process and as a life-skill rather than a monster. This attitude can help free both students as well as us as parents of exam related stress and anxiety.


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